A Word on Acceptance

A Word on Acceptance

Acceptance is a key concept in self-esteem and relaxation. Acceptance doesn't mean that you have to agree with everything or that you have to be ok with wrongdoings. Acceptance means living in reality. It means seeing things as they are. Not better, not worse. It means being honest, with yourself and with what the world... Read More
There is No Such Thing as Luck

There is No Such Thing as Luck

Tonight I'm flying to France. When I'm in France I feel like the luckiest person on the planet. Wait. Actually that's a lie. The truth is that people keep reminding me of how lucky I am. And what I feel is annoyance. Sometimes I even dream of myself shaking people's heads until they drop and... Read More
Introversion, Shyness, and the Need to Sell

Introversion, Shyness, and the Need to Sell (Yourself)

If you had read the about page of this site (don’t look for it, there is none), you would have known that I’ve spent the last 5 years debunking unhelpful beliefs. Why? Well first because they are unhelpful. Yes. And also because they don’t help. Ok? More seriously, the main idea behind these 5 years... Read More
Getting Better Takes Time

Getting Better Takes Time

You cannot learn to juggle in one hour. You cannot learn to play guitar in one day. And you cannot learn to ride a bicycle in one week. Ok maybe you can. Maybe it's just me who suck. Or maybe you're a genius. But the truth is, for normal people—and by normal people I mean... Read More
Do You Love the Right Way?

Do You Love the Right Way?

8 months ago my wife and I were talking about divorce. Yes. DEE-VORCE. The big word. At the time we were married for almost 4 years and had known each other for 5. We got married fast. 3 weeks after we've met we were motorbiking in Vietnam for the winter holidays. Back from there we... Read More

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