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There is No Such Thing as Luck

There is No Such Thing as Luck

Tonight I'm flying to France. When I'm in France I feel like the luckiest person on the planet. Wait. Actually that's a lie. The truth is that people keep reminding me of how lucky I am. And what I feel is annoyance. Sometimes I even dream of myself shaking people's heads until they drop and... Read More
Do You Love the Right Way?

Do You Love the Right Way?

8 months ago my wife and I were talking about divorce. Yes. DEE-VORCE. The big word. At the time we were married for almost 4 years and had known each other for 5. We got married fast. 3 weeks after we've met we were motorbiking in Vietnam for the winter holidays. Back from there we... Read More

Why You Should Never Take Anything Personally

You shouldn't take things personally. Never, ever. Ever, never. And I'm gonna tell you why. But first, I'll tell you why I did take every single little thing personally for so many years, and, if you can relate, maybe why you might be doing it too. STARTING LIFE WITH A WRONG BELIEF My mom was... Read More
Life is Hard — An Introduction

Life is Hard — An Introduction

Life is hard. But it is simple. We, humans, tend to make it complicated. Why? Because we blindly follow our fears. We follow shame, guilt, anxiety, embarrassment, even when they're not justified. We follow all those negative emotions. Or more precisely, we're trying to avoid them at all costs. But this is a very short... Read More
Life is Hard — Part II

Life is Hard — Part II

If you’ve missed my introduction on the subject, you can read it here: Life is Hard — An Introduction. Part I is there: Life is Hard — Part I. If you’re up to date, let’s keep going with a list of behaviors that bring back life to what it is supposed to be: simple. (But still... Read More