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Introversion, Shyness, and the Need to Sell

Introversion, Shyness, and the Need to Sell (Yourself)

If you had read the about page of this site (don’t look for it, there is none), you would have known that I’ve spent the last 5 years debunking unhelpful beliefs. Why? Well first because they are unhelpful. Yes. And also because they don’t help. Ok? More seriously, the main idea behind these 5 years... Read More
Life is Hard — Part I

Life is Hard — Part I

If you haven't read the introduction now would be a good time because 1) it introduces my views (hence the word introduction) 2) I wrote it and 3) in all objectivity it's totally awesome. But in case you disagree with all that, here's the gist: Life is hard, but it is simple. Because we want... Read More
Life is Hard — Part II

Life is Hard — Part II

If you’ve missed my introduction on the subject, you can read it here: Life is Hard — An Introduction. Part I is there: Life is Hard — Part I. If you’re up to date, let’s keep going with a list of behaviors that bring back life to what it is supposed to be: simple. (But still... Read More
There is No Such Thing as Luck

There is No Such Thing as Luck

Tonight I'm flying to France. When I'm in France I feel like the luckiest person on the planet. Wait. Actually that's a lie. The truth is that people keep reminding me of how lucky I am. And what I feel is annoyance. Sometimes I even dream of myself shaking people's heads until they drop and... Read More
A Word on Acceptance

A Word on Acceptance

Acceptance is a key concept in self-esteem and relaxation. Acceptance doesn't mean that you have to agree with everything or that you have to be ok with wrongdoings. Acceptance means living in reality. It means seeing things as they are. Not better, not worse. It means being honest, with yourself and with what the world... Read More