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What Do You Focus On?

Saturday. 9th of November. 1.30pm. I remember exactly because it was the opening weekend of the Macau Grand Prix 2013 and while I was arguing with my wife about where to go for lunch, Alex Yoong crashed his car right down our home. A beautiful Audi R8 just gone in seconds. And very loudly. We... Read More
Introversion, Shyness, and the Need to Sell

Introversion, Shyness, and the Need to Sell (Yourself)

If you had read the about page of this site (don’t look for it, there is none), you would have known that I’ve spent the last 5 years debunking unhelpful beliefs. Why? Well first because they are unhelpful. Yes. And also because they don’t help. Ok? More seriously, the main idea behind these 5 years... Read More
karma-is-a-myth

Karma is a Myth

Hi. When I was young(er), I used to believe in a LOT of fantasy stuff and romantic ideas. Too much TV probably. Too many movies about getting mail, too many Disneys I had to watch with my sisters and which made me dream about French kissing Ariel the mermaid before falling asleep. And also an... Read More
Life is Hard — An Introduction

Life is Hard — An Introduction

Life is hard. But it is simple. We, humans, tend to make it complicated. Why? Because we blindly follow our fears. We follow shame, guilt, anxiety, embarrassment, even when they're not justified. We follow all those negative emotions. Or more precisely, we're trying to avoid them at all costs. But this is a very short... Read More
The Real Definition of Selfishness

The Real Definition of Selfishness

While I gently press the trackpad of my MacBook Air with 3 of my delicate fingers, a popup comes out of magic powder and delivers the following message: selfishness |ˈselfiSHnis| noun the quality or condition of being selfish: an act of pure selfishness. Oh. Thank you. That was very useful. You asshole program. Well, the... Read More