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A Simple Rule for Finding Purpose in Life

Where I live, in Asia, a day is 24 hours. I spend 8 hours sleeping. Or at least, 8 hours in bed. I like it when I sleep. Sleep is important. We tend to forget it, but sleep is one of the most important physical need. The other one is sex. No, just kidding, it's... Read More
Kill the SHOULDs

Kill the SHOULDs (and Chill Out)

I've been the King of SHOULDs for many years. Wait. Before you applaud let me get this straight: this is not a good thing. You see, I had SHOULDs for everything. I had SHOULDs for what I should do, like today, tomorrow, in the coming months, or for the next decade. And for my whole... Read More

Just Do Something

You can read as many self-help or psychology books as you want (and there's a ton out there), nothing gets really learned as long as it is not applied to one's own life. In the same way you cannot call yourself a baker if you just read about bread, you cannot get better at life... Read More
The Real Definition of Selfishness

The Real Definition of Selfishness

While I gently press the trackpad of my MacBook Air with 3 of my delicate fingers, a popup comes out of magic powder and delivers the following message: selfishness |ˈselfiSHnis| noun the quality or condition of being selfish: an act of pure selfishness. Oh. Thank you. That was very useful. You asshole program. Well, the... Read More
There is No Such Thing as Luck

There is No Such Thing as Luck

Tonight I'm flying to France. When I'm in France I feel like the luckiest person on the planet. Wait. Actually that's a lie. The truth is that people keep reminding me of how lucky I am. And what I feel is annoyance. Sometimes I even dream of myself shaking people's heads until they drop and... Read More