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Depression is No Flu

Depression is No Flu

I'm just back from France. I've spent a bit more than a month there for the summer. It was great, thanks for asking. A bit cold though. When my friends and family asked me about my job, I talked about this blog instead. So I unexpectedly ended up spending a good amount of time talking... Read More

Why You Should Never Take Anything Personally

You shouldn't take things personally. Never, ever. Ever, never. And I'm gonna tell you why. But first, I'll tell you why I did take every single little thing personally for so many years, and, if you can relate, maybe why you might be doing it too. STARTING LIFE WITH A WRONG BELIEF My mom was... Read More
6 Books That Will Change The Way You Think

6 Books that Will Change the Way You Think

I read a lot. Like a fucking lot. Like a fucking huge amount of books. And words. And I swear a lot too, true. But hey. I even fucking quit my fucking job last year so that I can fucking read more. This morning after my fff...irst breakfast I read. Then I got another breakfast... Read More
Life is Hard — Part I

Life is Hard — Part I

If you haven't read the introduction now would be a good time because 1) it introduces my views (hence the word introduction) 2) I wrote it and 3) in all objectivity it's totally awesome. But in case you disagree with all that, here's the gist: Life is hard, but it is simple. Because we want... Read More
Do You Love the Right Way?

Do You Love the Right Way?

8 months ago my wife and I were talking about divorce. Yes. DEE-VORCE. The big word. At the time we were married for almost 4 years and had known each other for 5. We got married fast. 3 weeks after we've met we were motorbiking in Vietnam for the winter holidays. Back from there we... Read More