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Kill the SHOULDs

Kill the SHOULDs (and Chill Out)

I've been the King of SHOULDs for many years. Wait. Before you applaud let me get this straight: this is not a good thing. You see, I had SHOULDs for everything. I had SHOULDs for what I should do, like today, tomorrow, in the coming months, or for the next decade. And for my whole... Read More

Why You Should Never Take Anything Personally

You shouldn't take things personally. Never, ever. Ever, never. And I'm gonna tell you why. But first, I'll tell you why I did take every single little thing personally for so many years, and, if you can relate, maybe why you might be doing it too. STARTING LIFE WITH A WRONG BELIEF My mom was... Read More
Introversion, Shyness, and the Need to Sell

Introversion, Shyness, and the Need to Sell (Yourself)

If you had read the about page of this site (don’t look for it, there is none), you would have known that I’ve spent the last 5 years debunking unhelpful beliefs. Why? Well first because they are unhelpful. Yes. And also because they don’t help. Ok? More seriously, the main idea behind these 5 years... Read More
6 Books That Will Change The Way You Think

6 Books that Will Change the Way You Think

I read a lot. Like a fucking lot. Like a fucking huge amount of books. And words. And I swear a lot too, true. But hey. I even fucking quit my fucking job last year so that I can fucking read more. This morning after my fff...irst breakfast I read. Then I got another breakfast... Read More

What Do You Focus On?

Saturday. 9th of November. 1.30pm. I remember exactly because it was the opening weekend of the Macau Grand Prix 2013 and while I was arguing with my wife about where to go for lunch, Alex Yoong crashed his car right down our home. A beautiful Audi R8 just gone in seconds. And very loudly. We... Read More